Zeen
Registered: 04-2003
Location: London, England
Posts: 2060
Karma: 52 (+91/-39)
|
|
Reply | Quote
|
|
 Long distance sucks
Ah, take my advice. Never have a long distance relationship when your young!
|
|
10/5/2004, 2:06 pm
|
Link to post
Email Zeen
PM Zeen
|
Rimmer
Registered: 04-2003
Location: Straylia
Posts: 9750
Karma: 471 (+519/-48)
|
|
Reply | Quote
|
|
Re: Long distance sucks
It must be tough at times, Zeen. Whether it's worth it is up to both of you. 
|
|
10/5/2004, 2:33 pm
|
Link to post
Blog
|
Zeen
Registered: 04-2003
Location: London, England
Posts: 2060
Karma: 52 (+91/-39)
|
|
Reply | Quote
|
|
Re: Long distance sucks
Very tough. But definalty worth it for me anyway.
It's just at this moment I'm having to decide to choose between seeing him or sorting my future out. (job, college, etc). I'm trying to figure a way to manage both. 
|
|
10/5/2004, 2:54 pm
|
Link to post
Email Zeen
PM Zeen
|
Rimmer
Registered: 04-2003
Location: Straylia
Posts: 9750
Karma: 471 (+519/-48)
|
|
Reply | Quote
|
|
Re: Long distance sucks
Personally speaking, I wouldn't sacrifice too much on his behalf. That sounds a bit mean but, at the end of the day, you still need to have a plan that caters for you as an individual, not as one half of a couple.
|
|
10/5/2004, 3:17 pm
|
Link to post
Blog
|
Zeen
Registered: 04-2003
Location: London, England
Posts: 2060
Karma: 52 (+91/-39)
|
|
Reply | Quote
|
|
Re: Long distance sucks
I know, thats what he says too. But theres always a but. 
|
|
10/5/2004, 4:00 pm
|
Link to post
Email Zeen
PM Zeen
|
Rimmer
Registered: 04-2003
Location: Straylia
Posts: 9750
Karma: 471 (+519/-48)
|
|
Reply | Quote
|
|
Re: Long distance sucks
Yes, there's always a 'but'.
but... the happier you are with yourself, the happier you'll be and the more you will contribute in a relationship. So, look after your needs. 
|
|
10/5/2004, 4:32 pm
|
Link to post
Blog
|
Firlefanz
A Posting Machine
Registered: 05-2003
Location: Germany
Posts: 6029
Karma: 346 (+388/-42)
|
|
Reply | Quote
|
|
Re: Long distance sucks
Sound advice from Rimmer, here.
Good luck, and yes, take care that you choose something you can happily live with. *hugs*
--- - Firlefanz
Reading: Anthology Stories
Rewriting: "The Cloth-Merchant's Daughter", 2nd Lar Elien book
My board - Schreiberlinge unter sich |
|
10/5/2004, 4:54 pm
|
Link to post
Email Firlefanz
PM Firlefanz
Blog
|
Zeen
Registered: 04-2003
Location: London, England
Posts: 2060
Karma: 52 (+91/-39)
|
|
Reply | Quote
|
|
Re: Long distance sucks
Thanks both of you.
|
|
10/5/2004, 5:25 pm
|
Link to post
Email Zeen
PM Zeen
|
addi30
Registered: 12-2003
Location: In my own little world....
Posts: 2012
Karma: 150 (+163/-13)
|
|
Reply | Quote
|
|
Re: Long distance sucks
That is indeed good advice, though not quite what I expected in Flaming Hell.
Zeen, for my part, I want to add that, even though it seems hard now, in the end the two of you will be far, far better off if you put your job and school as first priority for the moment - so that, in the event that the two of you decide to remain together for the long haul, you'll be able to relax and enjoy each other rather than play catchup with schooling and such.
---
To announce that there must be no criticism of the president, or that we are to stand by the president right or wrong, is not only unpatriotic and servile, but is morally treasonable to the American public." - Theodore Roosevelt
|
|
10/5/2004, 5:51 pm
|
Link to post
Email addi30
PM addi30
|
Zeen
Registered: 04-2003
Location: London, England
Posts: 2060
Karma: 52 (+91/-39)
|
|
Reply | Quote
|
|
Re: Long distance sucks
Yeah, exactly. Thanks addi. 
|
|
10/5/2004, 6:18 pm
|
Link to post
Email Zeen
PM Zeen
|
